
Nervous System Check‑In:
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Takes about 5 minutes. You'll get a personalized picture of which of the 8 areas of your nervous system are asking for the most care right now: the same areas that quietly shape how you and your partner move through conflict, closeness, and repair.
This isn't a relationship personality quiz. It's a research-backed look at your own nervous system, taken through the lens of what happens between two people when one or both systems get activated.
There's no score to "pass" and nothing to get right or wrong — just a clearer sense of where your system is struggling, and whether working on it together might serve your relationship more than working on it alone.

I'm Tamara Ridge, LMFT #MFC37840 (California; also licensed in Utah 5772650-3902 and Wyoming LMFT-319). The Nervous System Check-In and my workshops are educational. They are not therapy, not a diagnosis, and not a substitute for care from your own provider.
Taking the quiz or attending a workshop does not make you my client.
If you're in crisis, call or text 988 (or 911). Your quiz answers are stored by ScoreApp; your name and email go to my email list (Kit) so I can send your results and workshop dates. You can unsubscribe any time. I never share your answers with advertisers.